Tracks in the Sandtray Training & Counselling Centre
Vulnerability & Bonding Patterns Part I - “What are they?”
What connection does our vulnerabilities have with bonding patterns? We believe that we are all one part, but in fact we are made of many different parts - we look at how we develop and the unaware ego. When we have a negative encounter e.g., a verbal interaction that ends in a win - lose situation “the blame games” happens. This is the start of the bonding pattern. This workshop looks at the first step in seeing how we get into conflict and why it happens. Until we see the patterns and understand where each person is coming from we cannot possibly change the outcome.
Bonding Patterns - Parts I, II & III
Bonding Patterns - Part II - “Recognising Bonding Patterns”
Keys to getting out of a bonding pattern. 1. Understand then and how they work 2. How unique are bonding patterns? 3. How long have they been around? 4. Only married couples have bonding patterns! 5. Can we change the bonding pattern to a positive one? 6. How do bonding patterns affect us? All these questions answered in this part of the workshop.
You could work as a carer for an organisation, a managing director of a big business, a counsellor, a psychologists, or be married, we all encounter bonding patterns, they cause emotional pain and suffering, mainly because we do not have the knowledge of how to prevent them from occurring. This workshop presents us with tools to deal with bonding patterns in our relationship issues that we encounter in our everyday lives. This set of workshops is held in a couple of different ways. Option 1, is over 2 weekdays for organisations or a weekend . Option 2, is three half days over a period of three days or weeks.
Note:- Please email if you are interested in attending this set of workshops.
Bonding Pattern Workshops
Bonding Patterns - Part III - How does it Happen?
1. How do we know when we are in a bonding pattern?
2. How does it happen?
3. What are the signs?
4. What do I fix the bonding pattern, once I am in one?
5. Strategies to get yourself out of a bonding pattern.
6. Long Term bonding patterns -” Enmeshment” and what to do about them.